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A New Year’s Eve Reflection from My Heart to Yours
Last New Year’s Eve, I prayed out loud—calling chaos out and calling peace in. What followed was a year that fell apart in ways I never expected. As 2025 comes to a close, I can finally see the truth: everything had to fall apart so something new could be built. This reflection is an invitation to honor what broke you open, recognize the strength you gained, and step into 2026 with trust, clarity, and intention.
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Merry Christmas, Beautiful Community
Merry Christmas! This season reminds us that even in the darkest times, light arrives—in love, gratitude, and quiet moments of clarity. May peace, love, and clarity fill your heart and mind, and may God’s grace meet you at every step. From my heart to yours, thank you for being part of the B. Well community. Wishing you rest, joy, and renewal this holiday season.
A Gentler Kind of Christmas
This season has taught me the quiet beauty of having less and meaning more. As life shifted, what stayed steady became clear—the people, the love, the moments that don’t cost anything but presence. As a newly single mom, I’m learning that Christmas magic isn’t about doing it all or buying it all. It’s about slowing down, choosing intentionally, and creating memories that feel safe, warm, and real. This season isn’t asking us to overextend—it’s inviting us to rest, to receive, and to let love show up in simple ways.
A B. Well Thanksgiving: Gratitude like the Homies
This Thanksgiving, B. Well reflects on gratitude, faith, and the power of community during difficult times. In a season filled with joy and complexity, we invite you to choose peace, presence, and radical gratitude — for health, family, daily provisions, and the simple blessings we often overlook.
A Story of Change: Welcome October
Autumn whispers a holy invitation: let go.
As the trees release what no longer serves them, we’re reminded that release is not loss — it’s preparation. This season calls us to loosen our grip on old stories, to make space for rest, renewal, and revelation.
You are not being emptied — you are being made ready.
Basking In The Rainbow: Our Family’s New Chapter
After months of storms, both literal and personal, our family has found a new beginning in North Carolina. Choosing love, peace, and community over material things, I stepped into a fresh chapter as my daughters’ primary parent. Sofia’s rainbow-themed birthday was more than a party—it was a symbol of resilience, faith, and the promise of brighter days ahead. Sometimes the greatest freedom comes from letting go and choosing what truly matters.
Freedom, Fireworks, and a Fresh Start
The 4th of July is more than fireworks and barbecues—it’s a chance to reflect on what freedom truly means. For many, especially Black women and marginalized communities, liberation is still a journey: the freedom to rest, to heal, to protect our peace, and to live unapologetically. This holiday is a reminder to honor how far we’ve come, while holding space for the freedom we’re still creating.
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How To Self-Partner
We are constantly with ourselves. Self-partnering is about staying with yourself when with others. The first part of self-partnering involves having a SELF. In this video, you will learn more about how you learned about yourself, learned to deny yourself, and can work to rediscover and support yourself.
How To Set A Boundary
"A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect." Boundaries are loving, they keep us and others safe. When we love ourselves rightly we assert and articulate our boundaries. Learn to set loving boundaries today!
How To Be Seen?
Being seen means being vulnerable and telling your story, being honest, talking about your feelings, and holding the space for yourself. Learn more about how to take up space and get your needs met.
How To Ask
We learn so much when we ask questions! This informative video (with terrible lighting) teaches you how to ask for what you want from a partner, employer, or even from God.
How To Feel Your Feelings
Your feelings matter. Your ability to tune in to your feelings allows you to make the right decisions for your life. Healthy relationships feel good; bad relationships feel bad. Doing the right thing feels good; doing the wrong thing feels bad. However, none of this will affect you if you cannot feel at all.
Identifying Your Trauma Response
At some point in our lives, most of us will experience trauma. When our trauma is inflicted by someone close to us, especially in our formative years, it is easy to stay stuck in our learned response. In this video, you will become more aware of your trauma response.
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