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The Friendships we Choose

The Friendships we Choose

When I began to grow I could no longer listen to stories that I'd longed to listen to before. I could hear the lack of self-worth in her decision "give him one more chance," I could hear his internal rage in his daily gripe about his "stupid boss," and I could see the role she played in her money problems. I was no longer attracted to it. I just couldn't be around that $h@!. I wanted people who would support me in being my best-self. I needed more.

Thoughts on Independence

Thoughts on Independence

Relationships should be symbiotic. We are all created to give, and to receive. To care, and to be cared for. To love, and to be loved. It is not powerful to not need anything from anyone. You cannot create relationships if you have no needs. You cannot create love without having a need for it.